Tuesday, 11 April 2017


NEVER DISAPPOINT


Sometimes we feel that there is nothing left in our lives.. We become pessimists. Sometimes  people even try to end up their lives, but they forget that there is someone who cares for them, who love them, who want them to be strong, to be positive, to be lively and to make them so He test them through different ways sometimes by putting them into trouble and sometimes by blessing them with whatever they wish for. In both cases He want to test who is a true believer, who trusts Him, who is the one who always say thanks to Him.
And you know who is He? He is ALLAH ALMIGHTY who always lives with you in your good and bad. Who cares for you and love you more than any one else in the world even more than you love yourself!!! but sometimes he want to test your love for Him.
So never lose HOPE always Trust ALLAH and be His strong believers. I guarantee you He will never leave you and will never let you down.

IQRA MAQSOOD
WOMEN RIGHTS IN ISLAM
 

"It's Time For Implementation!"

Today I will discuss specifically, “Women Rights in Islam”. So, let’s discuss them under different heads such as social, economic, legal and political.

Starting from the SOCIAL, Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) said
  •  Education is mandatory for men and women
  • You have to get education even its available in China

The above hadith does not discriminating gender that means it is not only mandatory for men but also for women. If a boy can get education by traveling long distance then girl can also.
  • Once a lady came to Holy prophet (S A W) and said that she was forcefully married by her father and she is not happy with her husband, the Holy prophet (S A W) dissolved her marriage then and there and emphasizes for marrying couples by their consent.
Above hadith validating the consent of females before marriage and made it compulsory for all Muslim parents.
Islam stresses on the kind treatment to wives. Following ahadith are highlighting Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W)’s very kind treatment to his wife.
·         Once hazrat Aysha (R.A) showed desire to see the ongoing circus in the street. Holy prophet (S A W) happily replied to her that she can hide herself at the back of holy prophet (S.A.W) and then watch the circus. Aysha(R.A) did this and enjoyed the circus as long as she can stand there when became tired she went back to home. The Holy prophets (S A W) stand there more than an hour for her entertainment.
·         Once an Iranian companion of Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) who was a very good cook cooked some food and came to Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) house for inviting him. Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W)  asked “can Aysha (R.A) also come with me.” Because of any reason companion replied” no she can’t.” Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) also replied “then I also cannot”. Companion invited Holy prophet (S A W) three times and got same answer from the Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W). At last companion said “yes she can also come with you” then Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) accepted invitation and brought her for dinner along him. Therefore bringing wife to dine out is not only encouraged but also SUNNA of Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W).
In addition, to demand separate house for living is also right of wife from his husband. If she does not like to live with the family of her husband then she has complete right to live with her husband in a separate place. Furthermore, Islam is not binding women to cook food to do crockery or to wash clothes of her husband. If she refuses to do all this then its not making her guilty in the eyes of almighty ALLAH. But yes, she might be very guilty in the eyes of her husband who brings her for doing all these services for him. Many of Muslim women love to do all these services for their husbands, so their husbands must be thankful for their wives.

Adding to it, growing age of fashion makes many minds ultra-modern. Now husband wants to look his wife as a model and he forced her to wear dresses according to fashion. In this case Muslim women has right to wear all these dresses which are according to Islamic dress code while going out of house. If her husband forced her to do so she can refuse to her husband to wear any vulgar dress which is against the teachings of Islam.
ECONOMIC RIGHTS
Before Islam there was no concept of inheritance for women. Islam gave right to women in the inheritance. Women have half of the part as men have in parent’s properties. This does not mean she has half right than man. But as she does not have any financial responsibility to fulfill as the men have. Therefore she can save or invest her part of the property for her future and making profit. It is also very clear in Islam that her husband can demand a single penny from her wife and she not bound to give anything to anybody.

In addition to she can buy property on her own name as a legal person. She can possess property without anybody’s interference. She has complete right on her property as she can sale it, rent out it and can give it to anyone as a gift.

Furthermore, wife has right to get dowry from her husband before establishing matrimonial relations. Husband is bound to give her wife dowry at the time of marriage. One more thing needs attention here that Islam did not fix any maximum limit of dowry. Husband can give whatever maximum he can give to his wife.
·         In region of Hazrat Ummer(R.A) he forward a bill in the parliament for fixing the maximum limit of dowry. That bill was challenged by a female parliamentarian and she said nobody can fix the maximum limit of dowry if Allah himself did fix it. Hazrat ummer(R.A) asked her that why it couldn’t be fixed.
She quoted the holy Quran
“If husband gave her wife bundles and bundles of wealth as dowry even then he cannot demand anything after diverse.”
Hazrat ummer (R.A) said that she is right and today men made a mistake and women corrected him.
Subsequently, maintenance is also on the shoulder of men at her stages of life. Father, brother, husband and son has to give her food clothes and other needs of life respectively. Maintenance of x-wife is also husband responsibility during the period of Iddah. Some of Islamic scholars agreed that husband has to fulfill his x-wife’s maintenance until her second marriage. In case if any children from her x-husband then it is also responsibility of child’s father.
·         Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) said,
“Anyone who brought her daughters with full care and then merry them. He is as close to me as my two fingers.”
Moreover, she has right to seek employment. If she wants to do a job and if society needs her then Islam give her full right to seek employment. But if she doesn’t want to do the job then nobody can force her to seek employment. Similarly she has the right to do business and to trade things in order to earn finance.
Hazrat Khadija(R.A), Wife of Holy prophet (S A W) said, was the famous business lady at that time.

LEGAL & POLITICAL SECURITIES
In the eyes of law she is as legal person as a man. she can be witness but her witness is half of man. It is not because she has half right as an human but due to her sensitive and shy nature. In fact God made her half responsible than man in all legal witnesses.

Similarly she has right to vote from first election of Islam.
After the election result of hazrat usman(R.A).Hazrat usman(R.A) and hazrat Ali (R.A) got equal votes. Therefore Hazrat abur Rahman bin Auf was appointed as a chief polling agent and assigned the task to get votes of men and women. He did this work three days and ultimately hazrat usman (R.A) elected.

Above event proved that women were having the right to vote from the beginning of Islam.
Adding to it, women used to work at different legal positions from the start of Islam. During the period of Holy prophet (S A W) women worked in different sectors such as in wars and in hospital.
-Hazrat Ummer (R.A) appointed hazrat Shifa(R.A)as an administrator and account officer for the market.

-Hazrat Usman(R.A) made hazrat umm-e-kulsoom an ambassador and sent her to Room.

Women has right to be consulted as other family members have right to be consulted. Many people believe that it is folly to act or listen women advise in fact they themselves are disbelievers and unaware to the sunna of Holy prophet (S A W).

At the event of Hudabiya Holy prophet (S A W) have consulted hazrat umm-e-Salma and acted on her advice to move on.

By summing up the whole discussing it can be said that Islam is the first sun that embrace women with light of all social, economical, legal and political rights before 15 centuries. It is very unjust if anybody is blaming Islam for the present state of suppresses women. In fact it is not Islam to be blamed it is because of forgetting the teachings of Islam.
In khutaba hijtul Weda, the Holy prophet (S A W) said,
“O, people fear from Allah in the matter of women, treats them carefully and fairly as Islam teaches you."

IQRA MAQSOOD 



WOMEN RIGHTS

"It's Time For Implementation!"

Women rights have always been an important issue in the society of every country. people in the society are not well aware of women right and its importance. Women is seem as a weak creature of Allah.But it's the truth that women is one of the best creature of the world!

The sad pages of history only present crying voices and tears of women that break the heart the reader. All the big civilization of their time including Hubsha, Byzantine, Room, Greece, Egypt, China, Hindustan and Arabian Penusiuala ruined the women under the feet of brutality. Those who are claiming themselves the leaders and providers of women rights in today’s world were in fact the real usurper of women rights from centuries.
Being Muslim, women is given a great value and importance in Islam.
Holy prophet (S.A.W) said,
“Among you the most respectable is the one who respects women and the most dis respectable is the one who disrespect the women.”
The above instruction of holy prophet (S.A.W) declared the ground of honor and respect for a person in Deen-e-Islam. Islam gave women an honorable life and ignite the light of rights in her life. If I make the list of rights given,then it would be:

Social rights
-right to get education
-right to accept or reject marriage proposal
-right to get divers
-right to secrecy
-right to just treatment in case of polygamy
-right to entertain and dine out
-right to demand separate house
-right to deny doing all the chores of home
-right to dress  
Economic rights
-right to Inheritance
-right to ownership
-right to dowry
-right to maintenance (Iddah, child upbringing)
-right to seek employment
-right to do business
Legal and political rights
-right to be equal before law
-right to witness
-right to vote
-right to work on legal and political positions

 Before Islam women were extremely deteriorated by the society. Islam abolished all these dark practices and made the paradise under the feet of mother, guaranteed paradise to a father who brought up her daughters with love, assured paradise to the husband who care her wife and made sisters partners in the inheritance.

Today Muslim woman is facing problems NOT because of lack of her rights in Islam but due to the male driven and illiterate society. Islam promised women respect, honor and safety before and more than any other religion, civilization and moderation. Islam gave all rights to women before 15 centuries which any one can expect in today’s highly modern world.

For further classifications of women rights in Islam, I will publish the post soon..

IQRA MAQSOOD

Follow your Dreams




"You can have RESULTS or EXCUSES not both"

Always have dreams and follow them as well. Because if you don't chase your dreams you wont be able to achieve them!. dreams are something that make you feel alive. we all have dreams about every thing. Always remember that nothing is impossible..... everything is possible in the world. Only thing that you require is STRENGTH and CONSISTENCY toward your goal. 

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THINK GOOD HAVE GOOD


"Be the first person to spread positivity"

When you feel sad, troubled, exhausted and find no way to get rid from the situation then try to think any positive point from the situation. If you wont succeed in first attempt try to do it again and again. At certain point you will achieve your goal :)
Secondly, always care for those who cares for you and even for those who do not care about you... because that thing will differentiate YOU from them. Maybe that can change their attitude towards you!
Doing this activity do not only give you a solution but it will make you feel relax and happy

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BE POSITIVE



"Be the first one to spread positivity"


It is said that think positive and positive things will happen. Positivity is something that shapes our attitude and behaviors. It makes you feel good and gives you courage to face hardships and  do things you consider impossible. Always try to find the positive side in everything. Make it a habit to think positive, to be courageous, optimistic because only good can come from it!

Iqra Maqsood